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PieceOfMeat wrote:so what'd the guy do to you MTC?

The truth? No bullshit no fluff?

Didn't make or want to make time to see me.

mytwocents wrote:

PieceOfMeat wrote:so what'd the guy do to you MTC?

The truth? No bullshit no fluff?

Didn't make or want to make time to see me.

On a Monday?

Longhorned wrote:

mytwocents wrote:

PieceOfMeat wrote:so what'd the guy do to you MTC?

The truth? No bullshit no fluff?

Didn't make or want to make time to see me.

On a Monday?

I'll give him that he was here for work...and we don't live in the same city to begin with so the fact that we were both in a diff city at the same time I thought maybe. No doubt he was busy w work stuff but Thur-Sun you can't set aside a little time?

mytwocents wrote:

PieceOfMeat wrote:so what'd the guy do to you MTC?

The truth? No bullshit no fluff?

Didn't make or want to make time to see me.

yeah, that'd piss me off too.

PieceOfMeat wrote:

mytwocents wrote:

PieceOfMeat wrote:so what'd the guy do to you MTC?

The truth? No bullshit no fluff?

Didn't make or want to make time to see me.

yeah, that'd piss me off too.

Mostly just sadness. Disappointment and sadness.

Don't you live in LA? Why date a guy who lives in another city?

mytwocents wrote:

PieceOfMeat wrote:

mytwocents wrote:

PieceOfMeat wrote:so what'd the guy do to you MTC?

The truth? No bullshit no fluff?

Didn't make or want to make time to see me.

yeah, that'd piss me off too.

Mostly just sadness. Disappointment and sadness.

Understandable. For me, though, it'd be pissed off first, with those others coming later. Thought you were in the pissed off phase due to the thread starting post.

mytwocents wrote:

PieceOfMeat wrote:

mytwocents wrote:

PieceOfMeat wrote:so what'd the guy do to you MTC?

The truth? No bullshit no fluff?

Didn't make or want to make time to see me.

yeah, that'd piss me off too.

Mostly just sadness. Disappointment and sadness.

Maybe your guy is just left shark.

UofACat23 wrote:This might sound crazy... but I don't think it's possible to make any broad generalizations about people and how they think based solely on their gender.

Yes. The question isn't what men want. It's what that man or woman you re interested in wants. Not going to find that from people who don't know them. This nearly all-male board argues about everything under the sun, but we're all alike?

So, my advice is to figure out why you're initially attracted to men who disappoint. Then stop using that as the entry point, so to speak. Because obviously "he's hot" or whatever it is isn't going to sustain you.

Then again, if taking this advice would end rally tits, then skip it. We all want that.

Bruins01 wrote:Don't you live in LA? Why date a guy who lives in another city?

It wasn't planned...and he comes to L.A. somewhat often for work...at least during football season which is now of course...over Also, I'd happily date a guy that lives in L.A....but despite what one would think, the dating single straight guys w/i a reasonable age range, who share some very basic things (i.e. religion) is fairly limited...

PieceOfMeat wrote:Understandable. For me, though, it'd be pissed off first, with those others coming later. Thought you were in the pissed off phase due to the thread starting post.

Eh.... it's going back and forth...I'm still in AZ and out of my element so the phases are jumpy...ha

Daryl Zero wrote: Maybe your guy is just left shark.

LOLZ...nah...we were texting during the game and he was lucid and coherent so def no left shark

All I can say is that guys have been there too...well at least some of us.

Not to say we aren't jerks, but we get fucked over as well from time to time.

Olsondogg wrote:All I can say is that guys have been there too...well at least some of us.

Not to say we aren't jerks, but we get fucked over as well from time to time.

All the time haha

Olsondogg wrote:All I can say is that guys have been there too...well at least some of us.

Not to say we aren't jerks, but we get fucked over as well from time to time.

Yep, like my buddy who moved from Chicago to Hawaii for a girl who told him two weeks later (and 1 day after watching him sign a year lease for an apartment) that she made a mistake and that he should have stayed in Chicago.

Or my other friend who found out 5 months into his marriage that his wife was cheating and wanted a divorce.

Those women are pretty much evil.

mytwocents wrote:...I'm still in AZ...

*knock knock* Someone's at the door to cheer you up.

Chicat wrote: Those women are pretty much evil.

how about a woman who adopts a family of kids with a man, then cheats on that man, leaves him, and ignores the adopted kids. that's evil.

But I'm not here to derail the thread. This thread is about guys, and there's plenty of similar stories that feature them.

Olsondogg wrote:I have a wife who is raging with pregnancy hormones. I'm afraid I don't have any more empty apologies for nothing I did, left.

Sorry.

This thread makes me so happy.

See, I'm married (almost always happily) & have two daughters. I'm sure I've referenced it from time to time around these parts - but holy shit do I need a break from the estrogen from time to time. Case in point, the oldest daughter currently has boyfriend troubles (they're 18/17 years old) & the youngest (3 yrs) just got in trouble at pre-school for not wanting to acknowledge any of the boys during show & tell.

Either I'm 50% lucky & one daughter is a lesbian (which just means MORE estrogen) or this topic/thread is a tale as old as time.

Oh yeah, & then there's the wife.

mytwocents wrote:

PieceOfMeat wrote:so what'd the guy do to you MTC?

The truth? No bullshit no fluff?

Didn't make or want to make time to see me.

That really sucks. Never make someone else a priority who doesn't make you one. I'm sorry you got hurt, but I'm also happy for you that you found out before marriage, babies, mortgage payments, etc.

Screw that guy. Maybe take Gumby's advice and try to figure out why that sort seems to be your type. Prolonged periods of being single suck, but sometimes the time for introspection is needed to save you from worse heartache in the future.

Chicat wrote:

Olsondogg wrote:All I can say is that guys have been there too...well at least some of us.

Not to say we aren't jerks, but we get fucked over as well from time to time.

Yep, like my buddy who moved from Chicago to Hawaii for a girl who told him two weeks later (and 1 day after watching him sign a year lease for an apartment) that she made a mistake and that he should have stayed in Chicago.

Or my other friend who found out 5 months into his marriage that his wife was cheating and wanted a divorce.

Those women are pretty much evil.

I have a story involving a friend of mine who's wife is so evil that even thinking about it sets me off.

Men, Women, whatever...people just really suck sometimes.

ASUCatFan wrote:That really sucks. Never make someone else a priority who doesn't make you one. I'm sorry you got hurt, but I'm also happy for you that you found out before marriage, babies, mortgage payments, etc.

Screw that guy. Maybe take Gumby's advice and try to figure out why that sort seems to be your type. Prolonged periods of being single suck, but sometimes the time for introspection is needed to save you from worse heartache in the future.

Yea it sucks...yea I hear ya....just ugh....The thing I don't get about myself is that it's like I'm a glutton for punishment...I don't NEED to follow his twitter or, even worse, I don't NEED to go out of my way to search his mentions...but like a completely fucked up individual, I do. Part of me says I do it so that I won't all of a sudden be shocked one day when I read/see something. I'm well aware that's a terrible justification but it's the only thing I can think of that makes any logical sense. Mind you this was a relatively new thing where we'd only physically been together twice....which makes this even more pathetic. I'm willing to admit that in my head, I already had me being his date at his sister's wedding next year...and already (and I shit you not) was thinking about what dress I'd wear. WHAT THE FUCK IS THE MATTER WITH ME. HOLY SHIT I sound delusional x1000. If I was listening to a friend of mine tell me this I'd tell her she's out of her mind yet I can't listen to myself. UGHIUHWE(G*{OUYEWR

I.....I'm at a total loss here.

Now is surely a bad time for me to state that I am glad I am not single.

Yep. Being single usually sucks, but there are perks too. I'vebeen single so long it's sometimes hard to imagine readjusting to being with someone. Might be why I've sabotaged my last 2 fledgling relationships.

Olsondogg wrote:Now is surely a bad time for me to state that I am glad I am not single.

UAdevil wrote:Yep. Being single usually sucks, but there are perks too. I'vebeen single so long it's sometimes hard to imagine readjusting to being with someone. Might be why I've sabotaged my last 2 fledgling relationships.

There are certainly advantages to being single, especially when you've been relatively independent for years and answer to no one but yourself.... but....yeah....prob not a good time to reiterate that you're happy you're not in my situation....

My problem is that I'm not, and have not been in a while, in a 'situation' at all. Boo.

mytwocents wrote:

ASUCatFan wrote:That really sucks. Never make someone else a priority who doesn't make you one. I'm sorry you got hurt, but I'm also happy for you that you found out before marriage, babies, mortgage payments, etc.

Screw that guy. Maybe take Gumby's advice and try to figure out why that sort seems to be your type. Prolonged periods of being single suck, but sometimes the time for introspection is needed to save you from worse heartache in the future.

Yea it sucks...yea I hear ya....just ugh....The thing I don't get about myself is that it's like I'm a glutton for punishment...I don't NEED to follow his twitter or, even worse, I don't NEED to go out of my way to search his mentions...but like a completely fucked up individual, I do. Part of me says I do it so that I won't all of a sudden be shocked one day when I read/see something. I'm well aware that's a terrible justification but it's the only thing I can think of that makes any logical sense. Mind you this was a relatively new thing where we'd only physically been together twice....which makes this even more pathetic. I'm willing to admit that in my head, I already had me being his date at his sister's wedding next year...and already (and I shit you not) was thinking about what dress I'd wear. WHAT THE FUCK IS THE MATTER WITH ME. HOLY SHIT I sound delusional x1000. If I was listening to a friend of mine tell me this I'd tell her she's out of her mind yet I can't listen to myself. UGHIUHWE(G*{OUYEWR

I.....I'm at a total loss here.

It's called pain shopping, and I think it's completely normal, especially when you have really invested yourself in the relationship. I could give you a ten page list of pathetic things I did when my ex wife left. You're grieving right now and it's OK to try to make sense of it, even if you aren't ultimately successful.

Sometimes the length of the relationship or the amount of physical contact doesn't seem commensurate to the depth of feelings. You aren't stupid for feeling what you feel, and you clearly have enough self-awareness to learn something from your pain, so at least your suffering won't be for nothing.

Be nice to yourself. Be sad if you need to be sad. Process the pain however you need to. Don't go looking for closure. It can't come from anyone other than yourself.

mytwocents wrote:

ASUCatFan wrote:That really sucks. Never make someone else a priority who doesn't make you one. I'm sorry you got hurt, but I'm also happy for you that you found out before marriage, babies, mortgage payments, etc.

Screw that guy. Maybe take Gumby's advice and try to figure out why that sort seems to be your type. Prolonged periods of being single suck, but sometimes the time for introspection is needed to save you from worse heartache in the future.

Yea it sucks...yea I hear ya....just ugh....The thing I don't get about myself is that it's like I'm a glutton for punishment...I don't NEED to follow his twitter or, even worse, I don't NEED to go out of my way to search his mentions...but like a completely fucked up individual, I do. Part of me says I do it so that I won't all of a sudden be shocked one day when I read/see something. I'm well aware that's a terrible justification but it's the only thing I can think of that makes any logical sense. Mind you this was a relatively new thing where we'd only physically been together twice....which makes this even more pathetic. I'm willing to admit that in my head, I already had me being his date at his sister's wedding next year...and already (and I shit you not) was thinking about what dress I'd wear. WHAT THE FUCK IS THE MATTER WITH ME. HOLY SHIT I sound delusional x1000. If I was listening to a friend of mine tell me this I'd tell her she's out of her mind yet I can't listen to myself. UGHIUHWE(G*{OUYEWR

I.....I'm at a total loss here.

Don't ever get down on yourself for being human. We all desperately want to be loved. Even Bruins01...

mytwocents wrote:

ASUCatFan wrote:That really sucks. Never make someone else a priority who doesn't make you one. I'm sorry you got hurt, but I'm also happy for you that you found out before marriage, babies, mortgage payments, etc.

Screw that guy. Maybe take Gumby's advice and try to figure out why that sort seems to be your type. Prolonged periods of being single suck, but sometimes the time for introspection is needed to save you from worse heartache in the future.

Yea it sucks...yea I hear ya....just ugh....The thing I don't get about myself is that it's like I'm a glutton for punishment...I don't NEED to follow his twitter or, even worse, I don't NEED to go out of my way to search his mentions...but like a completely fucked up individual, I do. Part of me says I do it so that I won't all of a sudden be shocked one day when I read/see something. I'm well aware that's a terrible justification but it's the only thing I can think of that makes any logical sense. Mind you this was a relatively new thing where we'd only physically been together twice....which makes this even more pathetic. I'm willing to admit that in my head, I already had me being his date at his sister's wedding next year...and already (and I shit you not) was thinking about what dress I'd wear. WHAT THE FUCK IS THE MATTER WITH ME. HOLY SHIT I sound delusional x1000. If I was listening to a friend of mine tell me this I'd tell her she's out of her mind yet I can't listen to myself. UGHIUHWE(G*{OUYEWR

I.....I'm at a total loss here.

Sounds like a guy you really liked but he didn't share the same feelings. Don't make it any more complicated than it needs to be... If you were a guy I'd probaly tell you to rub some dirt on it and get back in the game.

UAdevil wrote:My problem is that I'm not, and have not been in a while, in a 'situation' at all. Boo.

It's such a cliche, but marrying your best friend makes life easier. Shit, there are times where I am sure that my wife is not in love with me...but it helps being her best friend.

It also helps having friends who are approaching 40, that used to give love advice, still single and searching for anything that isn't a serial killer.

All I can say at some point M2C you'll realize that Lloyd Christmas was correct:

All this time I’ve been going through such pain and personal ANGUISH… SUCH HELL, for NOTHING!

ASUCatFan wrote:

Women are not evil...

I'd introduce you to my ex wife if I still talked to her...

I'll throw in on this. You want my ex-wife's number?

Happiest married guys I know relized early on that kissin' wears out, cookin' don't.

KCF wrote:

ASUCatFan wrote:

Women are not evil...

I'd introduce you to my ex wife if I still talked to her...

I'll throw in on this. You want my ex-wife's number?

word. I bet busty is still available.

KaibabKat wrote:Happiest married guys I know relized early on that kissin' wears out, cookin' don't.

Wife doesn't cook. But I married out of my league...

I listened to my uncle when I was dating her...he said "Get a good look at her mom, cause that's who you'll be looking at in 30 years".

Olsondogg wrote:

KaibabKat wrote:Happiest married guys I know relized early on that kissin' wears out, cookin' don't.

Wife doesn't cook. But I married out of my league...

I listened to my uncle when I was dating her...he said "Get a good look at her mom, cause that's who you'll be looking at in 30 years".

my gf's mom is only 17 years old older than her..still looks pretty good for 40 so hey... no complaints

I don't think I will ever be satisfied with one woman.

As a wise friend of mine in the Navy said...

A marriage is like a dinner. Your wife is the steak. But you've gotta have your potatoes. And your bread. And your beer. And your dessert.

Salty wrote:I don't think I will ever be satisfied with one woman.

As a wise friend of mine in the Navy said...

A marriage is like a dinner. Your wife is the steak. But you've gotta have your potatoes. And your bread. And your beer. And your dessert.

Yet another reason why you're an immature jack ass

scumdevils86 wrote:

Salty wrote:I don't think I will ever be satisfied with one woman.

As a wise friend of mine in the Navy said...

A marriage is like a dinner. Your wife is the steak. But you've gotta have your potatoes. And your bread. And your beer. And your dessert.

Yet another reason why you're an immature jack ass

I've had sex with more women in the past month than you have in your life.

If that makes me an immature jack ass, I'm completely fine with that.

Salty wrote:I don't think I will ever be satisfied with one woman.

As a wise friend of mine in the Navy said...

A marriage is like a dinner. Your wife is the steak. But you've gotta have your potatoes. And your bread. And your beer. And your dessert.

Spoken like a true Sociopath. Most of us don't see people as commodities.

I can't tell which is sadder. Salty's desperate need for validation from strangers on the internet or "Pay Pigs":

KaibabKat wrote:Happiest married guys I know relized early on that kissin' wears out, cookin' don't.

What if the kissin' wears out but the guy is the cook?

Salty wrote:I don't think I will ever be satisfied with one woman.

As a wise friend of mine in the Navy said...

A marriage is like a dinner. Your wife is the steak. But you've gotta have your potatoes. And your bread. And your beer. And your dessert.

At least you realize that about yourself. The problem is with the people who don't realize that and get themselves married to somebody.

Longhorned wrote:

Salty wrote:I don't think I will ever be satisfied with one woman.

As a wise friend of mine in the Navy said...

A marriage is like a dinner. Your wife is the steak. But you've gotta have your potatoes. And your bread. And your beer. And your dessert.

At least you realize that about yourself. The problem is with the people who don't realize that and get themselves married to somebody.

The real problem is that people like salty exist at all.

I don't think the "one woman" thing is the reason Salty dies alone.

Salty wrote:I don't think I will ever be satisfied with one woman.

As a wise friend of mine in the Navy said...

A marriage is like a dinner. Your wife is the steak. But you've gotta have your potatoes. And your bread. And your beer. And your dessert.

Its always a compromise. That's one of the bad things about marriage. There are lots of other bad things about marriage and about the same number of equally bad or worse things about being single. But as Longhorned says, if you feel this way, don't get married. Simple enough.

Salty wrote:

scumdevils86 wrote:

Salty wrote:I don't think I will ever be satisfied with one woman.

As a wise friend of mine in the Navy said...

A marriage is like a dinner. Your wife is the steak. But you've gotta have your potatoes. And your bread. And your beer. And your dessert.

Yet another reason why you're an immature jack ass

I've had sex with more women in the past month than you have in your life.

If that makes me an immature jack ass, I'm completely fine with that.

No one besides you gives a flying fuck how many chicks you've slept with. Not a one. Why would anyone here be impressed by you?

Longhorned wrote:

Salty wrote:I don't think I will ever be satisfied with one woman.

As a wise friend of mine in the Navy said...

A marriage is like a dinner. Your wife is the steak. But you've gotta have your potatoes. And your bread. And your beer. And your dessert.

At least you realize that about yourself. The problem is with the people who don't realize that and get themselves married to somebody.

I may change and want kids and a wife one day.

But right now, being chained to one woman scares the hell out of me. Especially since I know so many unhappy couples.

I've slept with a few married women. I would hate to be betrayed by my wife like that.

Salty wrote:

Longhorned wrote:

Salty wrote:I don't think I will ever be satisfied with one woman.

As a wise friend of mine in the Navy said...

A marriage is like a dinner. Your wife is the steak. But you've gotta have your potatoes. And your bread. And your beer. And your dessert.

At least you realize that about yourself. The problem is with the people who don't realize that and get themselves married to somebody.

I may change and want kids and a wife one day.

But right now, being chained to one woman scares the hell out of me. Especially since I know so many unhappy couples.

I've slept with a few married women. I would hate to be betrayed by my wife like that.

Well, unfortunately for you, Karma exists.

The thought of Salty procreating makes me want to emigrate.

Chicat wrote:The thought of Salty procreating makes me want to emigrate.

no kidding.

also not surprised he is the trash that would sleep with a married woman.

a garbage human in every sense of the word.

Salty wrote:I've slept with a few married women. I would hate to be betrayed by my wife like that.

You have less value as a human being than the greasy shit I took this morning.

You usually don't find out they're married until afterwards.

Longhorned wrote:

KaibabKat wrote:Happiest married guys I know relized early on that kissin' wears out, cookin' don't.

What if the kissin' wears out but the guy is the cook?

My dad used to say "The sex goes away, but you'll always be hungry."